I remember Tris would have the most random things written in our birthday, Christmas, Easter, etc. cards. I reread a bunch and the big change in his letters. When I was 1-9 he would say "You are a cool sister." When I was 10-14 he would say "You're lucky you have such a cool brother." When I was 15-16 he would say "You're a Gaylord." From 17-19 he would say "Omg. You're getting old. You are almost 21. Oh no!" Now that I will be 21 next year, he would say "oh no, one more year." I can just see it. It's gonna be so extremely hard not getting his cards anymore. I loved to read them and just call him lame. Every year on holidays, I will have to reread them and just laugh.